Sunday, December 11, 2011

Basics about Dating Women

Getting a girl to fall head-over-heels for you isn't as easy in the real world as it is in movies. A cute smile or expressive eye contact doesn't make women fall for you alone. You have to know what to do in order to make a girl date you before you can really expect to get her attention. So! Try using the following methods in order to get the girl of your dreams adoring you.

Be attractive. How can you be the peacock attracting the female if you don't think you have a good set of feathers to display? In other words, you need to gain some self-confidence about your looks. Appreciate what makes you as you are now. If you feel attractive and have some minute bit of confidence, women will pick up on this. But if you feel ugly and grotesque, they'll pick up on this too.

This doesn't mean that you shouldn't work harder for a better you. In fact, you should strive to lose those extra pounds or jog a few miles to retain your physical fitness level. But the most important thing is how you feel, because that contributes to your own self-confidence level and will help draw women in to you.

Confidence is king. A man whom is confidence is overly appealing to women. And it does not have to be an exhuberant kind of confidence. A man who exudes quiet confidence can be much more attractive than a man who goes about boasting about his achievements. In the case of a man who boasts, he may have an underlying sense of insecurity. This insecurity might mean he actually isn't confident, and again, women will pick up on this.

Be confident when you talk to a girl. You can mention your own accomplishments, but do so only very briefly and very lightly in the context of a personal story.

Be Chivalrous. A gentleman is still recognized in the age of gender equality. You just have to realize that you're being polite and courteous not because women are inferior, but because you respect and adore them. Open doors, pull chairs out for a girl to sit on, just make sure you let her know that you respect her.

Pay attention to her. When you're talking to her, make sure to maintain eye contact. Keep a proper posture. Lean forward and nod when it's appropriate. Don't check out other people, women especially, while talking to her. When she talks to you about something, ask questions. Show that you care about what's on her mind. Give her your full attention.

Make sincere compliments. Women love to be appreciated, so find something that you really like about her. (There should be something after all, considering you should be attracted to the girl you want to make fall for you.) The more specific you are with your compliments, the better she'll like them.

Don't give false compliments. The girl will eventually see through you, and when she does, you'll be in a world of hurt. Besides, if you like the lady, why would you give her a false compliment?

Women love to laugh. A good sense of humor is like honey attracting flies. In other words, women love a man who can make them laugh. Laughter also established an easy connection between you and her during a conversation. Recall a previous experience when somebody made you laugh, and then use that to make her laugh and feel good.

It's not always a necessity to make her laugh, but you should always try to keep the conversation light and fun.

Use these tips to get a girl to fall head-over-heels for you, and you'll eventually find meeting women more enjoyable than nerve-wracking.

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