Feeling lonely? Scores of guys have trouble picking up and attracting the opposite sex. The problem is the vast majority of us, myself included, weren’t gifted with the charm powers to be able to get girls without much effort required. I was finally fed up with my situation and I adventured out on a journey that began roughly ten years ago and from it I discovered exactly what worked with the ladies, and more importantly, what didn’t! So now here I am, and I'm going to hand out to you my top three helpful hints and tricks that you can use RIGHT THIS VERY MOMENT to start getting women to be attracted to you and will get you right on your way to learning how to get girls!
Don't be Afraid of Getting Rejected - Most guys have a paralyzing fear of rejection. It happens like this. A man spots a beautiful woman, and a few times out of ten, he may cheer himself into initiating contact with her. Between this moment and the next, the man starts doubting himself. “She's too busy for me”, “She's probably taken”, or “She's too good for me” when in reality this is just people validating their own fear of being rejected. When people are paying me hundreds to give them personal one-on-one help, I will tell them to go out and get rejected on purpose!
Most womenwill end up saying 'no' by saying “I already have a boyfriend” or something just as mild, so don’t be afraid of being laughed at. Go to a town a couple miles away to where you know no one and no one knows you. That way, you can ask women out without the feeling of rejection or worry because, you’ll never see these people again. Michael Jordan once said, you miss 100% of the shots you don’t take any. If you are having a problem with getting girls, don't use this as an excuse.
Be Confident - Women, when asked, say the most desirable and sexy trait that a man can have is to be confident. Act as if you manage the world, like you are the most wanted man on the face of this earth and you'll get practically whatever you want, whenever you want.
Confidence! If you want to discover how to get girls, this is the most important thing you need to master!
Be A Challenge - Girls are infatuated by challenges. This is typically why chicks date “jerks”. This isn’t because jerks are more attractive than nice guys; they're more of a challenge. If you know how to be a challenge, you don’t need to be a jerk to get girls to fall for you. Jokingly point out something, “those are nice shoes, my 5 year old niece has a pair” and just smile. Any woman, everywhere, gets compliments thrown at her nonstop by guys that want her. Change it up; challenge her.
If you really want to get girls, you need to demonstrate that you are the prize and you're the one to be won over. Don't be afraid to flirt sexually and most importantly be a challenge!
Tuesday, December 27, 2011
Thursday, December 22, 2011
Easiest Way to Get a Girl to Fall For You
How to get girls to fall in love with you could seem like an impossible job, but it's easier than it looks. Hopefully, you'll take to heart what I will reveal to you a one sure-fire way to get girls falling for you! Women are directed most by emotions, so you have to use this to your advantage.
This one great trick that I brainstormed will most assuredly work if you put in just a bit of your own efforts. I'll put this in in a way anyone can comprehend so you can read it and and put it into motion TODAY!
1. Foremostly almost all chicks want a guy who is desirable. They must have a guy that other girls want to be with. Liken yourself as being prize for the girl because that's what you are. Girls do not want some desperate worm.
2. Where am I going with this? The trick behind getting a girl to fall all for you consists of using other chicks. So you exhibit a bit of interest in the girlthat way you get the others jealous and talking about you. Give them cause them to take interest in you, but be sure to only become 'friends' with the chick you're after.
3. After you two are friends, tell her just how she is nice. After a while, start talking about dating and relationships and just casually mention that you're looking for a girl to date. Just don't let her know that she's the one that you really and truly want to get with. Enivitably, try to tell her that she's not the one for you but for some other guy she'd be lucky to have her.
4. The next thing that you should do is to find a friend that'll 'play along' with you. During this step too, you must maintain your air of self-confidence, that's also essential in making this charade to have an ounce of success. Promenade around with her and expound to anyone how wonderful she is at things.
5. The hottie you've got your eyes on will become interested in you! It's a tricky plan to enact but it's incredibly powerful when it works. Why do you believe girls like married men? They're off the market and clearly not a guy they can get, but that's exactly what makes them a challenge in their eyes.
This one great trick that I brainstormed will most assuredly work if you put in just a bit of your own efforts. I'll put this in in a way anyone can comprehend so you can read it and and put it into motion TODAY!
1. Foremostly almost all chicks want a guy who is desirable. They must have a guy that other girls want to be with. Liken yourself as being prize for the girl because that's what you are. Girls do not want some desperate worm.
2. Where am I going with this? The trick behind getting a girl to fall all for you consists of using other chicks. So you exhibit a bit of interest in the girlthat way you get the others jealous and talking about you. Give them cause them to take interest in you, but be sure to only become 'friends' with the chick you're after.
3. After you two are friends, tell her just how she is nice. After a while, start talking about dating and relationships and just casually mention that you're looking for a girl to date. Just don't let her know that she's the one that you really and truly want to get with. Enivitably, try to tell her that she's not the one for you but for some other guy she'd be lucky to have her.
4. The next thing that you should do is to find a friend that'll 'play along' with you. During this step too, you must maintain your air of self-confidence, that's also essential in making this charade to have an ounce of success. Promenade around with her and expound to anyone how wonderful she is at things.
5. The hottie you've got your eyes on will become interested in you! It's a tricky plan to enact but it's incredibly powerful when it works. Why do you believe girls like married men? They're off the market and clearly not a guy they can get, but that's exactly what makes them a challenge in their eyes.
Sunday, December 11, 2011
Basics about Dating Women
Getting a girl to fall head-over-heels for you isn't as easy in the real world as it is in movies. A cute smile or expressive eye contact doesn't make women fall for you alone. You have to know what to do in order to make a girl date you before you can really expect to get her attention. So! Try using the following methods in order to get the girl of your dreams adoring you.
Be attractive. How can you be the peacock attracting the female if you don't think you have a good set of feathers to display? In other words, you need to gain some self-confidence about your looks. Appreciate what makes you as you are now. If you feel attractive and have some minute bit of confidence, women will pick up on this. But if you feel ugly and grotesque, they'll pick up on this too.
This doesn't mean that you shouldn't work harder for a better you. In fact, you should strive to lose those extra pounds or jog a few miles to retain your physical fitness level. But the most important thing is how you feel, because that contributes to your own self-confidence level and will help draw women in to you.
Confidence is king. A man whom is confidence is overly appealing to women. And it does not have to be an exhuberant kind of confidence. A man who exudes quiet confidence can be much more attractive than a man who goes about boasting about his achievements. In the case of a man who boasts, he may have an underlying sense of insecurity. This insecurity might mean he actually isn't confident, and again, women will pick up on this.
Be confident when you talk to a girl. You can mention your own accomplishments, but do so only very briefly and very lightly in the context of a personal story.
Be Chivalrous. A gentleman is still recognized in the age of gender equality. You just have to realize that you're being polite and courteous not because women are inferior, but because you respect and adore them. Open doors, pull chairs out for a girl to sit on, just make sure you let her know that you respect her.
Pay attention to her. When you're talking to her, make sure to maintain eye contact. Keep a proper posture. Lean forward and nod when it's appropriate. Don't check out other people, women especially, while talking to her. When she talks to you about something, ask questions. Show that you care about what's on her mind. Give her your full attention.
Make sincere compliments. Women love to be appreciated, so find something that you really like about her. (There should be something after all, considering you should be attracted to the girl you want to make fall for you.) The more specific you are with your compliments, the better she'll like them.
Don't give false compliments. The girl will eventually see through you, and when she does, you'll be in a world of hurt. Besides, if you like the lady, why would you give her a false compliment?
Women love to laugh. A good sense of humor is like honey attracting flies. In other words, women love a man who can make them laugh. Laughter also established an easy connection between you and her during a conversation. Recall a previous experience when somebody made you laugh, and then use that to make her laugh and feel good.
It's not always a necessity to make her laugh, but you should always try to keep the conversation light and fun.
Use these tips to get a girl to fall head-over-heels for you, and you'll eventually find meeting women more enjoyable than nerve-wracking.
Be attractive. How can you be the peacock attracting the female if you don't think you have a good set of feathers to display? In other words, you need to gain some self-confidence about your looks. Appreciate what makes you as you are now. If you feel attractive and have some minute bit of confidence, women will pick up on this. But if you feel ugly and grotesque, they'll pick up on this too.
This doesn't mean that you shouldn't work harder for a better you. In fact, you should strive to lose those extra pounds or jog a few miles to retain your physical fitness level. But the most important thing is how you feel, because that contributes to your own self-confidence level and will help draw women in to you.
Confidence is king. A man whom is confidence is overly appealing to women. And it does not have to be an exhuberant kind of confidence. A man who exudes quiet confidence can be much more attractive than a man who goes about boasting about his achievements. In the case of a man who boasts, he may have an underlying sense of insecurity. This insecurity might mean he actually isn't confident, and again, women will pick up on this.
Be confident when you talk to a girl. You can mention your own accomplishments, but do so only very briefly and very lightly in the context of a personal story.
Be Chivalrous. A gentleman is still recognized in the age of gender equality. You just have to realize that you're being polite and courteous not because women are inferior, but because you respect and adore them. Open doors, pull chairs out for a girl to sit on, just make sure you let her know that you respect her.
Pay attention to her. When you're talking to her, make sure to maintain eye contact. Keep a proper posture. Lean forward and nod when it's appropriate. Don't check out other people, women especially, while talking to her. When she talks to you about something, ask questions. Show that you care about what's on her mind. Give her your full attention.
Make sincere compliments. Women love to be appreciated, so find something that you really like about her. (There should be something after all, considering you should be attracted to the girl you want to make fall for you.) The more specific you are with your compliments, the better she'll like them.
Don't give false compliments. The girl will eventually see through you, and when she does, you'll be in a world of hurt. Besides, if you like the lady, why would you give her a false compliment?
Women love to laugh. A good sense of humor is like honey attracting flies. In other words, women love a man who can make them laugh. Laughter also established an easy connection between you and her during a conversation. Recall a previous experience when somebody made you laugh, and then use that to make her laugh and feel good.
It's not always a necessity to make her laugh, but you should always try to keep the conversation light and fun.
Use these tips to get a girl to fall head-over-heels for you, and you'll eventually find meeting women more enjoyable than nerve-wracking.
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